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trying to have a baby

me and my soon to be husband. is trying to have a baby so when is the best time we should. start. trying and y he is 24 and I am 24
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Absolutely agree with the above posters especially the parts about being financially ready and living your married life first as a couple for a while without a child.
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1962649 tn?1332444851
annie is right. get married first and save money. you are very young. you have plenty of time to have a baby. make the future bright for your baby by becoming financially a stable and prepared. a baby will grow to a toddler and a child then a teenager. they do not stay babies for long so you need to be ready for raising a PERSON.
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Frankly, the best time to have a baby is after the couple has been married a while and had some fun together without a baby.  Get the money together, your jobs set, your patterns set with each other, go through a few Christmases and birthdays as a married couple, cope with the in-laws and their expectations and demands, then have the baby.  The reason I say this is because it can be a whole different dynamic to be married (different than when unmarried and a couple), and you want to know what that is in your lives together, before adding the stresses of parenthood to the mix.  
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