ugh

[Bobina30]

My fiancé and I are living at home with his parents... I feel like when I have my baby my mother in law in going to try to take over and take care of my baby.. I know that all she is trying to do is help and that this is my first but I know what to do plus I don't want someone else trying to raise MY child..

[Londres70]

How should you tell him?  He should really be already or you two should already be looking for a place of your own being you are engaged with a baby on the way.  

Tell him you want and need a place of your own for privacy as you feel you have none now.  Point out.

Don't get into criticizing his mother or his parents.

[Bobina30]

Ya that's what I think we should do. Now how should I tell my fiancée??

[Chima7]

Move out. You're right that she is going to take over and you'll be sitting on the sidelines. Get out of there as soon as possible.

[Londres70]

Probably should get your own place.  

[specialmom]

I agree with above that maybe it is best if you have your own place.  That would help out with this a lot.  

[Chase627]

I felt like my mom would do the same thing so my bf and i got our own place. Can u afford to move out? But honestly when u have the baby u will appreciate the help. Literally at first he woke up every 2 hours. 4 hours of sleep is the most i get consecutively. U might want thw help so u can sleep once in a while.