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what do you ladies think?
So my bf who I been with about 10 years goes out on his days off to friends house I know where he is I can call there phone and he's there but do you think its a problem he can leave and come back whenever he wants he tells me I'm a grown man I can do what I want.. he says I'm bot cheating on you and I take care of my family first so why am I tripping all the time so I'm curious what you ladies think is this acceptable would you let your man do this?
There r 3 things u and Ur forever partner have to have trust respect and love and friendship of course...me and my husband have been together for 13 years this month September and I couldn't amagin my life without him...
Mine kind of has a curfew you could call it, he works 7-3:30 mon-Thursday and Friday finishes early so he goes to the pub with mates but it was him who came up with being home before dinner he wants night time to be our time and weekends we go out and he'll call up his other mates he doesn't see and checks if they wanna see him too I don't mind because his best mate is a good guy, a damn idiot and a horrible fiancé but still a good guy I get along with him and I guess it's the same for me, I stay at home all week so as long as it's not after dinner I can see my friends or have them over
Then honestly be a best friend by letting him have his freedom. It'll make him feel beyond blessed & so much happier with the relationship.
Yes we had issues before he has cheated on me when we first got together he says its when he didn't love me and begged and swore he would never cheat on me again n here we are 3 kids later and stronger than ever we r eacgothers beat friend
No he's not immature he's a great man he works super hard to provide for us and deserves time out
My husband always asks me before he does things which I find weird and annoying sonetimes because I trust him. Like I'm not your mom you don't need my permission but I guess it's kind of nice that he doesn't want to offend me. Idk I just think if you trust someone then they should do what they want and you not have to worry. If you worry then maybe there's a deeper issue between you two.
I get very mad when my fiance goes out because I believe his friends are bad influences as well. but in my heart I really do not believe he would betray me. he never really gives me reason to believe he will or is, so I try to just remind myself that he loves me and our upcoming family nor do I believe he wants to lose that. trust is important. most of the time I know where he is at so I try not to trip out to much. we've been together for three years, have a baby on the way and have our names tattooed on each other as a symbol of loyalty and devotion. I feel confident about our relationship
Honestly I wouldn't complain & get mad at him. That's going to make him distant & unhappy in the relationship. I let my boyfriend do what he wants, because I know how good he is to me & how good of a father he'll be. But if your boyfriend is being completely immature, that's a different story.
Sounds like hormones. You trust him and love his company, so you must just want him around more often.
as long as you know where he is and you have really good trust in him you should not worry where he is or what he's doing not all men are bad I mean I used to be cheated on 24 /7 until I found him he actually treat me really nice and he doesn't give me a reason to doubt him not all men are the same though this is how mine acts
But mine also said that he was gonna give up spending so much time with his friends when the baby is born so idk
@ Luna ya I feel like he's not cheating so maybe I should let him do whatever?
He does show me attention and believe me I speak my mind I just hate being home alone n I enjoy his company so much
My man has free roam I know he wont cheat he leaves at 5 pm to go to friends and sometimes comes back at midnight or at 3 am but I know where he is and I trust him
I'm pretty selfish with mine. I know that's bad but i love his company so much lol. He knows how naggy I get about not spending time together so he spends his days off with me or if we go out and he wants to see his best friend he'll tag along. I don't mind it I just like to keep him in site because his friends are bad influences and im afraid he'll catch their bad habits . As for you, you have to speak up and let him know that you need your time with him . Yes he's a grown man but now he's also a family man as well. Doesn't matter if he's not cheating he needs to show you the type of attention he shows his friends.
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