what happens when the sex drive is gone?

[tiny22]

I love my boyfriend, he is everything I have ever wanted in a man. Trusting, loyal, patient, understanding, handsome and so much more... but recently my sex drive for him has gone down hill. I dont feel excited or even look forward to having sex. He tries everything to arouse me, but I just dont feel it. We've been together for over a year and this has never happened before. Is this normal?

[ksanden]

i no how you feel. i had my son 7wks ago, had sex a few times it was alright and now the past 2 times i just cant get into it. i have been with mine for almost 2years. i have a dr app tomorrow to find out how everything is going with me its my check up so hopefully my doc will have something to tell me.
ksanden

[4EVERDK]

Umm... usually there is a hormone imbalance when you have a lack of sex drive if you are normally very sexuly active...

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Are you healthy?  Have a thorough physical.  

SEx comes and goes in long term relationships.  I am 36 weeks pregnant right now and it is pretty much an impossibility.  I feel about as sexy as dirt.  Doesn't mean I don't love my hubby, and I know that in a few weeks I will feel up to it again.