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when i am feeling loved, i want sex. why?

when i am feeling loved by my husband i become happy. then i get the desire to have sex with him
when i am feeling unloved by my husband i become sad. then i dont have the desire to have sex with him.

why is it that when im loved and happy i want sex and when im unloved and sad i dont want sex?
why is the sex desire affected by feeling loved/unloved/happy/sad?
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Who wants to have sex with someone who doesn't show affection and love?  It's not like it's someone that you have disconnected emotions with and that you are with purely for sexual reasons.  It's your husband.  Often women connect sex with love and vice versa, so we equate the two.
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Love, desire and PASSION or the opposite unloved, undesired, no passion....unhapy, unloved, sad. All in the heart and emotions.
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