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why can't i have sex?
by xkaylee, Jul 02, 2009 04:00PM
im 19 and i been with my boyfriend for 2months. I lost my virginaity with him like a week ago. It really didn't feel special to me i don't understand why eveyone says its the best feeling ever. To me it was nothing. I really care about this guy a lot and i love being with him but sex is whatever to me and plus it hurts me a lot and i don't know why it hurts me. He says its normal to hurt but i don't know if thats true. Last night we tried to have sex again but i push him away. Why would i push him away now after we already had it? I really don't know. I feel embarassed and uncomfortable. I am very shy and i got no self estem but every guy is always telling me how beautiful,hot, etc i am but i still got no self estem. when im naked around him i feel so uncomfortable and its not just him im sure i would feel that way around any guy. Why do i feel like this and how can i change this? My idea of a relationship is just going out and having fun if it was up to me there would be no sexual realtionship for me.
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Of course, if you don't want to have sex with him, then DON"T! Your feelings may be a sign that you aren't ready for a sexual relationship; with anyone, or just with him.