why i cant i leave

[jerabera]

My boyfriend is sexually and emotionally abusive and hes really mean infront of his friends. And hes really disrespectful. but for some reason i cant dump him. hes pushy and always puts me down but i still stay. everytime were not together i plan on dumping him and then i fall right back into his spell again. Our relationship has ruined all my other relationships and i dont know what to do. my mind thinks its "him being protective" when really hes controlling my whole life and everything i do. help me.

[Amibk]

I agree. All I needed to see really was, my boyfriend.

Why do you diminish your life for someone else?

[glittzprincess]

A decesion like that can only be done by u. No one can help u unless ur ready to help urself. I was there like u for 6years it finally took a serious act for me to stop making excuses for him and get out. Best decesion I ever made and sorry it took me so long. They have a pull over us because we tend to hold onto the good times and not the bad. Please remember now u have a child and the decesiob not only effect u but the baby now is the time to stop thinking about what u want and what's best for that baby. It only gets worst I promise you . u will never find true happiness hiding behind him. The faster u do the better it will be. I hope soon u find the strength in urself  to leave  ur worth more then ur allowing him to show u. I'm sure ur still young and have aalot to learn. If u need anything message me. Good luck