why she stop calling me

[immaculate]

i recently met this girl about two weeks ago,we would talk on the phone and text each other,she was nice and she seemed to be interested in me,i had a whole week off from work last week,so i decide to see her at her office,she agreed,so i went by her  office last monday me a her talk and joke around during her brake,she did seem so happy that i was there,after we were done she gave me a huge and she went back to work,i did told her to call me but since then i having heard a word from her,i call her about twice since and left about 3 text messages,she have not return any,i dont no what went wrong,i would like your oppions on what might of happen........and she has a 2yr old son,she's 26 and i'm 21...and she did told me she isnt seeing any1 right now she works 2 jobs...what went wrong why did she stop calling me?

[iam1butterfly]

kid... texting; e-mailing; phone conversations are one thing.
But, that initial one-on-one; face-to-face; first encounter impression is quite another matter. It doesn't mean that anything went wrong.
What it t probably means is that chemistry-wise... things simply didn't "click" on her end... such is the world of dating and establishing relationships.
mami and AJH said it best... "move on"

[AHP84]

I have to agree with mami1323. It sounds like she doesn't have interest in you anymore.
As a single mother of a 4½ year old boy who works a full-time job and has a lot on my plate with other family issues, I have to honestly tell you that it's hard to find any motivation to commit yourself to anything else. Being a single mom with a very young child is a demanding and time-consuming life.
Also, I hate to say this, because in some cases it doesn't matter, but usually those cases are reversed...and that's the age difference. She's 26 and you're 21.
Again, speaking from my own experience, she has her life set on a consistent and stable course, most likely. If she's entirely independent and making ends meet on her own, then, from a single woman's point of view, her life is hers. Opening it up to someone who, statistically speaking (not singling you out), has yet to mature and get his life set on a consistent and stable course, is taking a risk, especially with a child involved, because most partners who step into the lives of someone with a child have a hard time accepting that the child comes first, no matter what.
That's easy for someone to say "I know that and wouldn't have it any other way," but trust me, it's a whole different story in more than half the cases once the partner gets more intimately involved with the person with the child.
However, she may simply be too busy lately and hasn't gotten a chance to get back to you.
In any case, my advice is to stop calling and texting her and wait for her to contact you, because maybe she just needs to know that you're not going to be too clingy and insecure with her.
If you don't here back from her in a week or two, move on.

[mami1323]

I'm going to have to say this and please don't get upset but have you heard of that movie "he's just not that into you"?  Well in this case I think "she's just not that into you".  It may not be anything you did per say but perhaps she just is in a different place in her life right now.  You are 21, just beginning your life, and not to say 26 is old but she's got 2 jobs and a 2 year old.  It's a completely different life she's living.  Either she's to busy to even think of a relationship or she is just not wanting to be with you.  If she was interested, believe me, she would find the time to contact you.  Especially if she was doing it before with no problem.  Maybe that time you met her, she realized she didn't feel the same for you.  At this point you should just let it go and move on.  

[heatherlynn22]

she's a single mother of a 2 yr old boy with 2 jobs. the girl is probably busy. give her some time. i have 2 boys and no job (i'm a sahm while the hubby "brings home the bacon") and i'm busier then ever. there are days when i can't respond to text messages or return phone calls because the boys need me or there is something to do around the house.