Do not throw in the towel!! Instead, work closely with sleep experts in a high quality sleep lab. Your problems with the continuous positive airway
pressurePressure ulcer (CPAP) device can be overcome. It may require a change in mask, a change in
pressurePressure ulcer, a switch from a mask to an oral appliance, the use of BiPAP instead of CPAP or a number of other approaches. Both the CPAP and the bi-level positive airway
pressurePressure ulcer (BiPAP) are machines that are used during sleep to deliver air
pressurePressure ulcer into the lungs to keep the airways open. This is the best and the safest treatment available and you should not give-up on it. There is too much at stake here.
Believe me. Once you find the best set-up, you will welcome the use of CPAP or a variant of it.
It is even possible that a jaw-advancement device will suffice. Oxygen, alone, might or might not be feasible, depending on the nature of your sleep apnea. You need to discuss this with a doctor who is a sleep expert.
You are right to not have surgery. It is too problematic and the results too unpredictable.
Talk to your doctor or CPAP supplier about the problems you're having with the equipment. Maybe they can help.
take care