i have too much mucous in my throut what is the problem
Much, if not all, of the change you've described could indeed be on the basis of oxygen deprivation, including your husband’s cognitive function. However the apparently rapid progression of both his rheumatoid arthritis and the interstitial lung disease (ILD) could well be accompanied by depression, which also could significantly effect his personality and his cognitive function. With inadequate oxygen, impairment of cognitive function is often the first sign, which is often more subtle when due to depression.
Also, at least some of the loss of pulmonary function may be reversible.
It is highly likely that the cognitive function loss is completely reversible, or nearly so, and would improve with supplemental oxygen. You should continue to try to persuade him to give oxygen a try. You should discuss the likelihood of depression with his doctors. If he is depressed and treated for it, he may become more accepting of the use of oxygen, especially if he can be convinced that using oxygen is not an acknowledgment that he has a fatal disease and will have to remain on oxygen the rest of his life.
Good luck.