Thank you for your help it is nice to know that we are not alone
Check out the Jewish Respitory Hospital in Denver, which is reported to have state of the art pulomonology resources and physicians. My wife, who is a retired nurse, suddenly developed an inert left diaphragm and this is where we were advised to seek help. Good luck.
I don't know how to direct you but I am so sorry you and your sister are going through this. I don't know what area you are in but perhaps contacting the big university hospitals..john hospkins or the mayo clinic? It seems like she needs a better quality of care than what she is receiving, and there is no reason for her to be in pain. They should take care of that. Please try and contact one of the big hospitals, at the very least they have experienced pallitative care. You and your sister will be in my thoughts. good Luck