I decided to go to a CSW for the first time ever. I am a sexually inexperienced person. I agreed to a *******. We both got undressed fully. So she had taken out a wipe from a sealed sachet, and cleaned my penis. Next she had put on a condom on me. She proceeded to give me the *******. She sat in a couch, and I stood up. A short while after, she layed back and invited me to have sex with her, but I declined. She sat up again and resumed the *******. A short while later, since I did not want to have sex, she agreed to lay down and hold my penis in her hand in a cup-like manner against her body around her pelvic area. I layed on her and trusted in her hand that was against her body. I came pretty much immediately due to the the novel excitement. After this, we both stood up, and she removed the condom and cleaned my penis with another freshly opened sealed wipe.
I didn't penitrate her, i didn't fool around her vagina or its region at all. I was only on top of her, and she was holding unto my penis. However, after leaving, my concience got the better of me. I had some basic understanding of HIV transmission before all this, but after doing some homework, I am extremely worried now.
The stds of grave concern to me now are; genital/oral herpes, HPV, hepatitis, & HIV, all of which are incurable. I am so worried now since reading that the former 3 can easily be transmitted by very simple skin to skin contact or touch, which is news to me & this concept of contact confuses me. So since her body touched my body, I am very worried. And since I am learning the prevalence of these stds. Like 50% of sexually active people have gotten HPV i hear. So I am pretty much assuming that the girl would have an std.
So I would really appreciate input on my situation and how much of a risk I have to contracting one of those 4 Stds. I honestly never knew my skin touching her skin would get me in trouble. Right now all that is on my mind is getting tested and looking out for symptoms.