Ok so about 15 months ago I had unprotected sex with an ex girlfriend that lasted around 5 months, after that I never really thought much of it, I got checked for chlamydia and that came back negative. Now 15 months on i'm experiencing swollen glands in my groin, left and right groin, I have no discharge, but have been urinating a lot more frequently of recent weeks, I wouldn't say it burns just feels like i still need to go when i'm done, could this be gonorrhea? I'm going to go to the doctors but I stress a lot and am really worried of done some permanent damage, any advice?