I am a female that was given herpes through anal sex. It caused proctitis, but there were no sores or blisters externally on my body. Blood test revealed HSV2+, HSV1-. I am positive that the proctitis was the initial HSV2 infection.
I am currently in a relationship with a man that is HSV2-. We are intimate, but not having sex at this point. He is fully aware of the situation. What are the risks to my partner as far as oral clitoral stimulation and vaginal intercourse? Condoms will be used of course. I am considering Female condoms and also viral supression (even though I have never had external symptoms) to try to protect him. Is this overboard? Should I assume that if the HSV2 is in my rectum that it is on my genital area as well even though there have not been signs of it? If anyone has this situation or any legitimate medical advice on this, it will be greatly appreciated!