I always seem to get a sore throat after giving oral..

[Dreamingangel21]

I am very confused. When i give my new boyfriend (of now about 4 months) oral, i get a sore throat the day after. He has been checked and I have been checked for any STD's and they both came back clean. I don't understand if maybe it is just irritation or what. This last time I got the white spots on the back of my throat and just majorly did not feel good at all! Head stomache, etc.

Why would I keep getting sore throats from giving him oral (he loves it!) and I want to do it as much as possible but the whole sore throat thing keeps getting in the way.

My doctor said it isn't an STD of the throat. I did get antibiotics.. but what about next time? Why is this happening?!

[sswan24]

i had this happen to me awhile ago and believe it or not i had a hair on my tonsil didnt know or notice it at all and everytime i gave oral my throat would flare up. Until one day my throat got that bad with white puss on it like tonsilitis my tonsils inflammed so badly i was put in hospital for them to find a hair wrapped around my tonsil my bf was trimmed down there but it had come from his chest area while i was doing it or could even be a hair from ur head doesnt matter where but if it keeps flaring could be the reason

[medstudent145]

sounds like your reacting to the bacteria of the normal flora. my advice is to hold off on doing it for a bit. explain your situation to him and he should understand. right now, give your throat a rest and see if something else is causing this. in the future, make him wash it before you give him oral.

[Dreamingangel21]

all of them.  And antibiotics just for a sore throat in general. I am anemic and I tend to get sick fairly easily.

[medstudent145]

which std's were you checked for? why did you get antibiotics?