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I'm not sure what ot make of this

Hello,
I'm not so sure what to make of this. 3 days ago I had unprotected oral sex with sex worker (dont know why i didnt even think of a condom- my stupidity-(i'm shaven,and circumsized btw) anyways, she was totally into foreplay - I'm not trying to advertise, I just want to explain here- she washed me down at the sink with warm soap and water, dried me up, then she used this warming lube on me and friction made it really warm. as she "worked" me, the warming sensation increased. When I was done, she used another warm towel and cleaned me up. Now when I was driving home I thought "holy ****- I forgot to use a condom!" she works many different cities, adverts on craigslist. I am so freaked out, I dont know what to do! my area above my shaft is slighlty swollen, and my genitals are burning even till now. NO cuts or anything, but it seems that some small spots are appearing on the sac- do you think this could be an alergic reaction to the lube? I went a day after to my dr for a blood test, but this feeling and suspense will not let me sleep? I called her and offered her money to come to a clinic for a blood test and she refused- she claimed she was clean had not sores or cuts, and is tested regularly, yet she declined to go for a test.
My question is, and I know it may not make any sense, but I need some sort of direction- what do you make of this? I've studied all the sites of the possible infections, I dont know what to do? I dont want anything, what wouId I tell my wife and kids?? is there any herbal healing out there- nothing that suppresses it, but totally kills any infection? she was clean looking, smelled good, but who knows, if she lets every client shoot in her mouth, what do I have?
help pls.
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Also, i couldnt' get nto the dr"s office- maybe tomorrow- howver, i wanted to ask how long would it take for a bump to open and become an open sore? ive been getting more bumps, but they dont flare up and open.
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Hello Aj,

What I meant was the symptoms of HSV-1 vs the symptoms of hsv-2 is there a diffference - is there a difference in pain, or swelling or type of bumps, or severity of the breakout?
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I don't know what you mean.  

Aj
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thanks AJ,
I cant get in until the wknd to get checked...
quick question, hsv-1 in the genitals vs hsv-2  what is supposed to happen?
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207091 tn?1337709493
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I'd really doubt it.  Just get it checked.

Aj
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Thanks for the reply AJ,

I think my anxiety may have just started back up again.  I was just in the shower, and thought I would check for progress on the bumps in the groin- they are going down, however a funny thing has happened.  The bumps have started developing on my genitals?! they are many bumps, not clustered (i think)- and again they are beginning to sting- is it possible for herpes to have started there?
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