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Low risk encounter drives me crazy

Dear all, as can be seen from my questions on the moderated forums here, I have a history of visiting erotic massages and subsequently suffering. This goes on for many years now. A week ago I have been to a massage again and the girl was naked. We had mutual masturbation and a little of her secretions could have been involved (touched herself and me with same hand). Dres. Hook and Handsfield always reassured clients not to worry about such events. But it simply does not work out for me. I think it over and over in my mind and cannot function properly. I would have to wait 6 weeks to test (fearing syphillis the most) which I know helps (helped before). But this 6 weeks will be horrible then. Your thoughts on that please?
Thank you!
Robbie  
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3147776 tn?1549545810
Hi there - the point Dave was making is that the STDs forum is for evaluating risks, the need for testing, and treatment of STDs.  Since you're already aware of the non-risk nature of your activities, there's not more that anyone here can say.  If you're having difficulty dealing with the anxiety, you might find help in our Anxiety community: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Anxiety/show/71
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Dear Dave, thank you for your kind words, they sure do help. I got you wrong at first, my mistake, sorry!
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Hi not trying to offend you but this last affairs risks question has already been answered. No ones judjeing you for frequentlint the palors as im sure its quite an enjoyable experince but the point im trying to make is that its having the opposite reaction to you. If you enjoy these then by all means enjoy yourself but if going there is causing tremdous anxiety then change your outlook about this as is just something you enjoy. Nothing wrong with going to massage palors!
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Hi for the past 4 years answers have been given for your massage concerns and theres really nothing more we can add to your risk concerns.
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Hi, it has been 10 years and I really have tried a lot (counselor, anonymous sexaholic group etc.). I thought that maybe someone in a similar situation could give an advice. But to say "nothing more we can do" to someone in despair is worse than saying nothing at all!
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