Hey man, don't stress out about this, just make sure you get in to see a doctor as soon as possible. If you're the only person your girl has had sex with, the most likely explanation is a urinary tract infection or infection where the skin was broken, due to e-coli bacteria. Although this is not an STI, it can be serious if left untreated and give you further complications., so make sure you get in and get treatment soon.
Thanks grace I appreciate it :)
An update, it hurts to urinate and the head is very inflamed. Doctors are closed due to a pubic holiday so what can I do to alleviate the pain?
the forums are all volunteer and most of us are in a completely different time zone than you are :)
the best thing to do is to be seen today and get this looked at properly. if your gf was a virgin before you, you know this isn't std related.
grace
Please help me out guys, in quite a bit of pain here...