sorry... ignore the last posting. i shouldn't focus so much on one outlier posting. i'll take the recurring theme that mutual masturbation carries no risk. thanks!
Hi Grace, thanks for your response. I agree, I should see a counselor. I know I have a lot of guilt influencing my anxiety and I also think I have other things to resolve since my anxiety in general has not been normal over the years and I have been compulsive about sex at times and then regretted it.
All that said, I would really appreciate some understanding of the discrepancy between Jose from STD - International and Hanfield, Hook, and others. I just don't know which side to take. Jose believes it is a risk and he doesn't seem to say that the risk is miniscule, but rather a real one.
you did not have any risk for any std's from what you've described.
are you talking to a counselor about all of this?
grace
I read some more posts and I'm a little confused with why the STD - international seems to be more cautious. Jose says there is a risk of STDs during mutual masturbation:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs---International/RISK-OF-ANY-STDs/show/1563986
Is he being super conservative or there is a risk?
1. No
2. No
You had no risk