About 20 days ago I visited a massage parlour. I had a body to body massage from a lady for about 20 mins using hot oil and then had hand relief. I was laid on towel during the massage and showered after using a towel provided.
About 2-3 days after the visit, I felt some tingling at the end of my penis and have since experienced a feeling of needing to urination more frequently, with a feeling like I still need to go after I've been to the toilet. My meatus has also looked puffier than usual. As I am married (and completely wracked with shame and guilt), I went to get an STD urine test performed (dr thought no risk but is testing for gon and chlam). I don't have the result back yet.
This morning, I noticed a red mark on my foreskin (uncirc), not raised or circular, just flat and a bit red, running around one side of the foreskin.
I'm really anxious that I could have caught an STD although everything I've read suggests this is not at all likely. Could I have caught a UTI instead, and could that cause any redness of the penis.
Thanks for any advice.