Unprotected oral...

[Paulyzeeee]

I met a woman at a bar 3 weeks ago.  After several drinks, we went back to my hotel and took a shower together.  There, I used my fingers to penetrate her.  I had no cuts or scrapes.  She then performed oral on me.  I also penetrated her unprotected in the shower.  I don't think I was inside her for more than 5 seconds as I was drunk and not very erect.  Afterwards, after getting out of the shower, she spent about 10 minutes giving me unprotected oral.  

I masturbate often.  I sometimes find myself chaffed due to excessive friction.  I'm scared to death.  A few days later after exposure, I noticed minor discomfort in my throat along with soreness in my legs.  I was a little run down overall.  3 weeks later, I still have minor discomfort in my throat that comes and goes.   I dont notice any other symptoms.  Also i had a slight sensitivity on the head of my penis a few days after exposure, but that went away after a day or so.  

I had unprotected sex with my wife afterward several times, including oral.  What's freaking me out is that she is experiencing a runny nose and exhaustion after 3 weeks.  I'm afraid I've contracted an std....or even worse, HIV.  What the heck did I do?  

[Chelsey92]

You had had unprotected sex irregardless of ejacualtion or hard or not it was still unprotected.  If you noticed symptoms after a few days. why would you sleep with your wife unprotected?  You need to get a full std panel check as well as a hiv combo test asap.  If your going to cheat on your wife, at least have enough respect for her by using a condom.  Best of luck to you.

[Vance2335]

Test if you want but no symptoms makes me think of a STD. HIV questions post in the HIV forum.