Hi,
I have been having some confusing symptoms on my vulva which have been relatively mild, but have been noticeable and therefore disconcerting. About a week and a half ago, I noticed a 'warm' feeling on my vulva, almost as if I had just applied lotion. I ignored it, until I noticed that I also had a dull ache in my vagina that lasted for a few days, similar to the feeling the day after having sex. I then noticed that in between where my labia minora and labia majora meet, there was a redness, and it was almost raw-looking. It was the same length and on both sides of my vulva. It almost looked as if someone had taken their nails and scratched me on either side. I never had any blisters, and these (sores? scratches?) were not painful to the touch. After I noticed these, for 1-2 days, my vulva was very slightly irritated and had sort of a chafed feeling all over, not just where the redness was. The mild pain subsided, and I decided to examine myself. I found something that was rather alarming... I have these strange whitish/gray patches that cannot be washed off on the deepest folds of my inner labia, and well as in my vagina, it has sort of a whitish gray cast to it. Other parts of my inner labia had a pink sort of shiny patch that was not at all irritated feeling but was located next to these gray patches. This has not gone away. I have had no itching, no burning while urinating.
I have also had a lot of energy, no flu-like symptoms, and no gland swelling. What could this be? I am freaking myself out thinking that I have some sort of vulvar cancer or chronic lichen problem, but given all of my symptoms, what does this sound like to you?