No, I actually don't think herpes gets blown off too often. It's not a big deal. So you have herpes, so what. I do too. Of course you tell your partners and you take reasonable precautions, but honestly, has anything actually changed since you were diagnosed? I mean, aside from the emotional effects... because feelings aren't facts.
Estrella: Just because you have herpes, doesn't mean that everything that happens to your genitals is due to herpes. You could have herpes AND a yeast infection. You could have herpes AND BV. You could have herpes AND a skin condition. I could go on, but hopefully you get the idea. Go to www.westoverheights.com and look for the herpes handbook. Read the whole thing. Great info. Among other things, I think it will help you understand why you could have herpes and your husband doesn't.
md1733: I can't remember if you've had a herpes bloodtest, but it's probably more likely yeast, BV, hormonal, or a skin issue. I think you said before that you were on the pill--when I was on the pill years ago, I had almost constant yeast infections. And there is a drug-resistant strain of yeast, candida glabrata, so you might ask your doctor to check for that. Also, I don't remember if BV was in the picture, but if so it can be really, really tough to get rid of. It often takes repeated visits and repeated treatments :-)
Do consider seeing a dermatologist, too.
yes and no. Herpes gets blown off all too often, you do know that don't you?
If you posted this in the dr's forum he would probably tell you that it does not sound like typical herpes. I do not think bleeding is a normal condition of a HSV lesion. Also, if the pain just kind of hangs around that is not typical, they (sores) normally come for a week or so and then go away. they do not persist non-stop for months. you can always get tested with a swab of the sore or a blood test. Or post in the dr's forum to get professional advice. good luck.
I worried and wondered about my tears too for yrs only to be told they are nothing, just dry skin. Finally, after so many irritations and being tired of it, I had and herpes select test done and it did come back pos for type 2 just like I thought. I had several neg cultures in the past. Trust your gut. Get a culture when it is bothering you or go get a western blot blood test or herpes select type specific. You can get herpes select at planned parenthood. I did a second select cuz I still can't figure out why if I have it my husband does not after 14 plus yrs of being together monogomously. Anyway, hope this helps.