Went for a gay bathhouse couple of times. Please help

[newbie887]

I have never been active sexually until 3 months ago . Went to a gay bathhouse for 9 times as an over all with in  these 3 months. All the activities I have been practicing was receiving unprotected oral . French kissing . Mutual masturbation and some naked cuddling and few times I fingered some of those random people there. Read about the Std risks so I went for HIV/STD testing a month ago and found my results all negative. Since then I had 3 times naked cuddling, mutual masturbation, french kissing , received oral twice with condom and fingered someone once with a glove. I'm super worried some of these activities might have been a risk of transmission of anything for me including herpes . Noticing that all whom I have been were looking healthy with no visible sores or anything but who knows!

Yesterday I noticed a small pimple in my inner lip cavity. I used to have such a thing rarely when I was sick or stressed even before having any sexual activities . But I'm afraid if it would be something . Am I at a risk of any STDs or HIV or even Herpes? Are the transmission rates of herpes or STDs from my sexual activities high or am i safe? Do I need another testing? I'm really horribly terrified!
Please give me an answer I need to move on specially that I decided to abstain from these activities as I will get married in May.

I really appreciate your help and your answers.

[newbie887]

Yes and i did testing and it was negative and since then it was all protected. So am i safe? Right?

[Vance2335]

Only risk you hve had is receiving unprotected oral.
Kissing is not a STD risk. Oral herpes is not considered a STD. More herpes info post in that forum please.