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What could be??? So worry!!! plz help
Plz i need opinions. So last weekend my boyfriend went out with his friends they went to a strip club, he lie to me about it and he told me because he said he was going to the doctor to get a check up i asked him why?..He said just to see how iam doing. he normally doesnt go even if hes sick so i knew something was going on after he was out he told me he went to get a check up because the day he went out with hes friends he got a LapDance nude dance i guess so he said he was already drunk and they had skin contact no sex or nothing and that days after he started feeling Tingling and a lil itchy down there so they told him it could be Chlamydia they got him the medicine but they did a urine test but we not ganna know until next week so im so worry could be something else?? its been only a week since he went out and 5 days since he was at the doctors. i hope somebody can help me im try to be positive because i really love him and dont wanna deal with any STD.
Yea he really got scared and said he would never go back. im hoping so because im not ganna put me on risk if he didnt think bout it in that moment. well thank u so much im hopong that we get the results soon and it comes negative he sweart go me crying nothing else happend and he only went to the doctor for me . im trying to be positive keeping my fingers cross
odds are this was just either a reaction to the oils on her body or a fungal infection more than a std but because he was drunk and obviously naked with a stranger, covering the bases is a good idea to err on the side of caution. Being a thorn in his side about this, might also make him think twice about drinking too much at a strip club and putting you at risk in the future too :) if he tests + for chlamydia, he really will have some 'splainin' to do as they say :(
all he has felt its lil tingling and itchy he said days after he took medicine its getting less symptoms
Do you ghink it helped that he went to check up 4days after that happened?.
the doctor gave him medicine for chlamydia and we waiting for the test results.
This waiting is killing me cuz i wasnt sure what exacly could you get from that but thanks for that info.
the doctor gave him medicine for chlamydia and we waiting for the test results.
This waiting is killing me cuz i wasnt sure what exacly could you get from that but thanks for that info.
hpv, herpes and syphilis can be transmitted through naked outercourse.
he should follow up on his testing at the proper times to protect you. unfortunately we don't have commercially available tests for hpv to cover that base too.
he should follow up on his testing at the proper times to protect you. unfortunately we don't have commercially available tests for hpv to cover that base too.
Grace thank you well he swear to me he did he said he was already drunk but that he didnt do no sex oral sex nuthing that she did her dance and it was rubbing like her part with hes so it was skin contact. He.worries too much for any lil thing like anxiety so idk if that hes makin him see things worse. We haven't been together like that since days b4 that happened. Im just really worry that can he have something else with no cured.
I asked myself but isn't different to get something having sex and touching each other?
I asked myself but isn't different to get something having sex and touching each other?
he wasn't likely to have contracted a std if he honestly did not have any sex. I'd really have to question if you are getting the whole truth from him at this point. you won't get chlamydia without sex - either oral or genital.
if you assume that he isn't being honest, he can get tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea, trich and ngu any time after 1 week post encounter. syphilis after 6 weeks. herpes, hiv and hepatitis after 3 months. even though condoms aren't 100% protective against herpes, hpv and syphilis, consider using them for sex/oral sex until you've sorted this whole situation out to protect yourself!
think about yourself at this point and your protection!
grace
if you assume that he isn't being honest, he can get tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea, trich and ngu any time after 1 week post encounter. syphilis after 6 weeks. herpes, hiv and hepatitis after 3 months. even though condoms aren't 100% protective against herpes, hpv and syphilis, consider using them for sex/oral sex until you've sorted this whole situation out to protect yourself!
think about yourself at this point and your protection!
grace
Ask him to be honest with you and show him his results. You may want to get tested yourself.
It's always a good idea to be tested regularly if you are sexually active. The Good news is, if you got anything it's easily treatable. Till then, don't let the stigma and these worries control your life.
Good luck. I'm sure you'll be fine.
It's always a good idea to be tested regularly if you are sexually active. The Good news is, if you got anything it's easily treatable. Till then, don't let the stigma and these worries control your life.
Good luck. I'm sure you'll be fine.
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