What is this infection?

[whydididothat]

Hi

I had a protected vaginal and oral sex (receiver) 8 months back. I kissed the CSW on her lips but no exchange of saliva (just a peck on the lips). 40 mins later, i felt something breaching in to my lower lips because i had break in my lips.

2 days later, i saw an ulcer and 4 tiny cuts on my lower lips. My doc suspected as HSV 1 or 2 and treated me with Valacyclovir. It was healed within 3-4 days without scar.

30 days later i developed an ulcer in my anorectal area, it was healed within 2 days without treatment.

50 days later, i saw one white spot on my  tonsils and red granules on the back of the throat. It is there for 7 months now, it appears like white patches on the back of the throat. IT IS STILL THERE FOR 7 MONTHS, I TRIED ALL ANTI-BACTERIAL SYRUPS AND TABLETS.. but of no use. Now i have 2 white spots and white patches on the throat, sometimes i can smell foul odor but not everyday.

One month after my exposure, my 6 year old daughter developed Fever reaching 104 deg and her lips were reddish(inflammation) and swollen. She recovered after a week's treatment. On and Off she is complaining that she is getting irritation on lower lips.

I didnt have sex with my wife for few months citing some stupid reasons. We resumed sex recently 2 months back, now she is complaining of "nipple discharge" on right side, it was there for 3 months now and today she started getting discharge on left side as well.


Diagnosis:
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My latest blood test for IgG 1 & 2 was negative which i tested 4.5 months after exposure. I tested for HIV, HSV 1 & 2, Hep B.. all the results are Negative.


NOTE:
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I have visited more than 10 doctors, all of them were telling the infection is because of some food particle etc etc..

I am so scared and confused i dont know what kind of infection i and my family is infected with.

Somebody please advise me what type of test should i do to understand my problem.

My question is:
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1. What is this infection i have?
2. Is my daughter and wife also infected with the above mentioned respective symptoms?
3. How can i diagnose my infection?


Thanks

[Vance2335]

No clue. This is the STD forum and all I can really comment on is STD's based on knowledge.

[whydididothat]

thanks a lot for your reply..

i felt so relieved as its not a sign of std but there is something wrong which i dont understand.. cud this be mono or EBV..

[Vance2335]

1. I don't know but it has nothing to do with a STD
2. I don't know, but if they are it is not a STD
3. Keep working with your Dr, as this is not a STD