You had protected sex. That's safe sex, man. You are over stressing. Sexually active people should get tested from time to time and maybe now is the time to ease your mind but it is unnecessary as you do not appear to have done anything risky. If you go to your regular doctor or even a clinic, you can ask about your symptoms then to get a plan to treat them but your worry about an std from fully protected sex and no other activity like unprotected oral or sex --- is unfounded. And when condoms break, you are right, it's very visible. It's like a catastrophic even where it splits. So, you should try to relax.
Perhaps the urine odor is from the urinary infection? I would not let yourself get too stressed, if it were an STD it sounds like possibly chlamydia, which is very easily treated with medication! We all make mistakes sometimes, I would definitely go get tested to be safe! If anything, just say you want to be tested because you recently had a new partner. You do not have to disclose who it was if you do not feel comfortable!
Some update:
I finished my treatment with augmentin(amoxicillin) and the pain and discharge completely gone! So I think 100% that was a urinal infection like how I had few months ago! Now I am feelinng a bit sick(flu) but for sure is because I am working outside(12h) a day and now in London is very very cold (- degrees). I didn't had annything else. Hope everything is fine. It passed 8 days after my treatment with antibiotic and didn't came back the infection wich means (I think) that I killed the virus(infection). I had also some back pain but I have hernied disk so maybe was from that.
Have a wonderful day guys!
Thanks for your answer! Now i am taking amoxicillin and i don’t have any discharge anymore but reading all the staff makes me feeling really nervous. Thinking about condom if was broken or not and then i am saying is impossible to be and to not see that. And chlamydia as well i don’t have any ideea how you can catch something if you use protection,and i have asked that girl if she is checked,and she said to me that she is not doing anything without condom. Anyway thanks alot. Have a good day!
Can someone answer please? I am getting crazy...