Aa
scared wated long time....
hi im 16 yrs old and ive had sexual contact with penis to vajina and it was unprotected but i never gave sperm u just had dry sex as i would say it when u pretend to get in vajina but dont ive gotten around the anus, vajina and thats all. i was wondering 1, how long it takes for death heart diseas or any effects on u from getting an std can be how long it takes for it to hit u. ive personaly wated about 3-5 months. and i want to know what i should do and i also have lumps in my penis when i squeaze it and it feels swollen or harder when im not arrect. and my penis is slightly turned to the left. and my parents do not know iv had the sexual contact. i also seam to have a brownish spot underneathe my nozle of my penis and red bumps on the rimp of the crown of the penis head. and it used to hurt while urniating but not as much just a slight burning sensation. plz help me before it might be too late to get help cuz i have wated for a long time i think. thank you.
COMMUNITY LEADER
It might, it depends on the antibiotics.
And I doubt you have an std.
And I doubt you have an std.
hey aj...i had a check up on thurs. and i had to pee in a cup and give it to them. i was wondering they said that they do that to look for anything thats affecting u. do u think that they will find std in it if i did have it? there using all of it on tests for everything cuz thats part of the checkup. also im on antibiotics cuz i had the flu and now i have a rlly bad cold with a sinus infection and rattling in my chest from mucis. so they put me on antibiotics. so if my stf were treatable even though i probably really dont have any std do u think the antibiotcs would treat the sinus infection and what ever else i have?
COMMUNITY LEADER
A herpes outbreak is when the herpes virus becomes active and causes an ob.
Your other question belongs in men's health. Its not std related.
Aj
Your other question belongs in men's health. Its not std related.
Aj
Also Aj ,
sometimes i have wet dreams sometimes and i wake up and my penis is twitching for like 5 seconds i cant really controll it then after it sometimes the penis hurts like stings inside and sometimes it stings and it feels num behind my scrotum. Just wondering what that was.
sometimes i have wet dreams sometimes and i wake up and my penis is twitching for like 5 seconds i cant really controll it then after it sometimes the penis hurts like stings inside and sometimes it stings and it feels num behind my scrotum. Just wondering what that was.
AJ,
i have a question. what is a sexual outbreak? or just an outbreak like they say on comercials and stuff.
i have a question. what is a sexual outbreak? or just an outbreak like they say on comercials and stuff.
kk thx u rock!!! thats all i got right now for u. ur rlly nice thx!!! i apreciate ur hard work daily. if i could i send u tips.
COMMUNITY LEADER
OK I need to clarify that a bit.
If someone has oral hsv1, then they could give their partner genital hsv1 by giving oral sex. In your age group though, oral hsv1 isn't all that common.
Aj
If someone has oral hsv1, then they could give their partner genital hsv1 by giving oral sex. In your age group though, oral hsv1 isn't all that common.
Aj
ok. and my last question is, are there anything else i can get from sexual contact if the women was a virgin and u were too?
COMMUNITY LEADER
Yes, that is real.
That has nothing to do with sex, though.
And they probably put that in the show because George Lopez had a kidney transplant a couple of years ago.
Again - nothing to do with sex, masturbation, etc.
Aj
That has nothing to do with sex, though.
And they probably put that in the show because George Lopez had a kidney transplant a couple of years ago.
Again - nothing to do with sex, masturbation, etc.
Aj
well i was watching a george lopez episode and it was where the son has a gf. and he was wetting his bed alot. and he also had stomach cramps. and so the dad of the wife said that he might have a something infection. and the wife said i thought girls only got those. and he said only if the boy has been sexually active. and they went to doc and he didn/t have it from sex but he had what ever it was becuz he was born with small tubes or something in he system where the prostate gland is and stuff. and they had to do surgery and then the doc said that he would of gotten kidney disease and needed a transplant. and im assuming that the infection they are talking about can be real. cuz alot of real things are on those episodes.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Do you mean bladder infection? Bladder infections, kidney infections, etc., have nothing to do with sex.
Aj
Aj
Aj, does that work with everything? and not just std? like a blatenary invection i think its called and some ppl have thin tubes and need kidney transplant if they have kidney disease.
COMMUNITY LEADER
If she was a virgin, there is NO CHANCE of you getting an std, and therefore, you don't need testing.
Use condoms, ok? And maybe you aren't really ready for sex if you aren't ready to handle the possible outcomes, which is totally normal for a 14 year old, ya know? Just take your time - there is no rush.
If you stay with this girl, you also need to talk about birth control.
Aj
Use condoms, ok? And maybe you aren't really ready for sex if you aren't ready to handle the possible outcomes, which is totally normal for a 14 year old, ya know? Just take your time - there is no rush.
If you stay with this girl, you also need to talk about birth control.
Aj
hey i realize im srry i dont have std she was a virgin too till now. so its fine i never realized. or i lost half my virginity cuz i never did give the baby. i was just wondering just to get checked can u get a check up and get urin tests cuz they always take urine tests at my checkups so if possible would they find anything that way but im sure i have nothing i think i have a 99.9 chance of any std i was just wondering this so i can get checked that way anyway. if not then ill just let it go and get checked at 18 yrs old. or just die lol. well i guess im done here for now if i have any que's. in the future ill ask but im done off the subject with std's now. thx so much for all ur confort and help and info i apriciate it thx for being so nice and i hope understand that all teens who have sex or sexual contact realize that they made a mistake that will cost. thx again.
-Al(allan)
-Al(allan)
COMMUNITY LEADER
Al -
First, you are posting too much. This tells me you are either really anxious, or just spamming. Either way, you need to tone it down.
You keep saying you lost your virginity, yet you also said you didn't penetrate. If you didn't, you didn't lose your virginity.
You are really at low risk here. Have you even talked to the girl you were with? If she is also a virgin, you are at NO RISK.
Either talk to your parents, or find a trusted adult you can talk to. But you need to relax, and stop freaking, and stop posting so much. You have more than 30 posts in 4 days.
Aj
First, you are posting too much. This tells me you are either really anxious, or just spamming. Either way, you need to tone it down.
You keep saying you lost your virginity, yet you also said you didn't penetrate. If you didn't, you didn't lose your virginity.
You are really at low risk here. Have you even talked to the girl you were with? If she is also a virgin, you are at NO RISK.
Either talk to your parents, or find a trusted adult you can talk to. But you need to relax, and stop freaking, and stop posting so much. You have more than 30 posts in 4 days.
Aj
Aj does syphillis only give u brain damage if u dont treat it within 30 yrs? it says brain damage and blindness is a could occur after 300 yrs of it happening.
in generall. if u were to bring up the word panned parenthood to parents would they believe me if i said i want them to take me just to ask questions?
i was wondering could i go to the docs get a checkup and if he take urin samples like hes done once and look at it could he find std in it? or any sexually transmitted illneses?
hey thx so much that helps too so should i just say dad can u take me into the docs office alone and just want to discuss things with him and have my dad take me if he wants to? btw i think it was like 5 months iv'e done it, it was at christmass time. lol which is the worst time to do it according to my religion. and it's also just i dont want my mom knowing or dad cuz when i get tested and if it comes out possitive ill be in sooooooo so so so much trouble i dont even want to picture my mom. she'll probably cry her face off. and if they wonder why im getting tested alot without them noticing there ganna find out and force me to tell them.
Don't worry, you haven't done major damange waiting 5 months. Your penis will have things that look wierd to you when you are young. Some people have moles, and some small bumps that are completely normal. You are a young adult, so don't be embarassed, just tell your mom you need to go into the doctors office alone. If they pressure into why just say you aren't comfortable talking to them about everything. Tell the doc your situation and they will take good care of you.
Don't worry, don't be embarrased, just go and take care of your health.
Don't worry, don't be embarrased, just go and take care of your health.
COMMUNITY LEADER
No, I don't think it will kill you.
Oh I must have linked them in another thread. Here they are again -
www.iwannaknow.org
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/index.php
Both are designed just for teens.
Aj
Oh I must have linked them in another thread. Here they are again -
www.iwannaknow.org
http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/index.php
Both are designed just for teens.
Aj
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