Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your kind comments about our services.
Thanks also for a responsible attitude toward STD prevention. Occasional routine testing makes sense for most people who are sexually active outside mutually monogamous relationships.
However, testing times for reliable results are not as rigid as you have come to understand. There is nothing magic about 12 weeks; it's just a general ball park figure. There is no significant difference in test reliability a few days short of that. Here is a quick summary of STD/HIV testing times after the last possible exposure.
Gonorrhea and chlamydia (urine, or urethral or vaginal swab): 2-3 days for gonorrhea, 3-5 days for chlamydia.
Syphilis: 6 weeks.
HIV: 4 weeks (duo test) to 6 weeks (antibody test). For a discussion of why 4-6 weeks is OK despite official advice for testing at 3 months, see
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1704700.
HSV: Testing generally is not recommended unless there are symptoms or for regular (not one-time) partners of known infected partners. If testing is done, 3 months is recommended, but in rare cases it takes 4 months. But a few days short 3 months probably makes no difference.
HPV: No tests available.
Bottom line: Have a urine gonorrhea/chlamydia test, and a blood test for syphilis and HIV. You don't need to wait until the last minute for any of them. Don't get tested for HSV or anything else. (Just scan the forum for innumerable examples of misleading results for HSV testing. Don't risk it.) But if you insist on HSV testing, the odds of infection from any single exposure are so low that you shouldn't focus on the most recent exposure. Just get tested at the same time as the other tests are done.
I hope this has helped. Best wishes-- HHH, MD