I think prostatitis is a good guess, what with the changes in semen, etc.
If you don't have insurance, you should call your local health dept and ask what services they offer to those who don't have insurance.
Aj
There is and thats where i went after the two weeks to get tested. I am 23 years old circumcised. I assume they didn't test for herpes because i didn't have any physical symptoms. When i ejaculate i have also noticed it is thicker then normal and i belive i am producing less. I have read that this isnt a symptom of anything, how ever they went hand in hand with the time period of the swollen meatus. I thought it was nothing, but after 4 months i am positive it must be an infection or something bacterial, possibly prostatitis? I'm just not sure and want it to return to normal.
You were negative for everything except herpes, and you didn't test for that. Herpes wouldn't cause this symptom.
I don't know where you are, but is there an std clinic near you?
Aj