Thanks for the reply. I understand when you say I could not get herpes from the bj. It's the seating butt naked on a chair that goes with my education that "you can catch a STD from toilet seat".
You see, growing up fearing toilet seats, now anal itch after seating on a "dirty" chair. I can't help but think it's related.
I use hydrocortisone (.5% couldn't find 1%) and it hurts a bit. But seems to be working. It's been going on for two weeks now, I guess if it was herpes it wouldn't itch by now.
Doc, I hope you read this and can answer.
I was convince I had nothing and stopped worrying. I even had sex with my GF. However, my anal itch persisted and I have been able to see something using a mirror.
My butt crack is red from anus to lower back. It is a line right in the middle. The itch is not in the area around the anus but higher towards my back. So I figure good, not herpes as herpes usually is blister like and roundish in form. But on a UK site I've read anal herpes is usually showing in line along the butt crack.
I know about the strike by lightning chances you told me. But those things I've found have me worried. Should I stop sex with GF and go for herpes tests? I cancelled my tests after your comment as I was sure I was ok.
You are describing what garden variety pruritus ani looks and feels like. I repeat, you could not have acquired anal herpes from the BJ you received from the stripper.
Thanks doc!
My local health care provider recommended that I get tested. The only aggravating fact that I forgot to mention but actually told my provider, is that I found a very small red spot (the size of a dot ->".") behind the head of my penis when I came home and showered. I don't know if this was following a teeth scratch or if it was there before. This red spot healed in about two days.
Based on what I read on the forum, I didn't think I needed HIV testing, but my provider recommended it anyway and for other STD as well.
I don't think this info will change your opinion on this, please let me know if it does.
Thanks again for your comments, that's really relieving. You have no idea how much I appreciate your devotion.
The medical term for anal itching is pruritus ani--which doesn't really say anything, since it's just Latin for itchy anus. It is an exceedingly common symptom. Everybody has it some of the time, and for many people is is a fairly continuous and aggravating problem. Herpes can cause that symptom, but is a rare explanation overall.
And there is simply no chance you acquired herpes of the penis, anus, or anywhere else from the events you describe. You can "suppose" all the "what if" scenarios you want about whether it "could" happen, but it would be a more productive use of your energy to worry about something that has a higher chance of happening, like getting hit by lightning.
Did you really get tested for gonorrhea and chlamydia on account of this event?? What a waste of time and money. If this is your only risk, it would be an even greater waste to have additional testing for herpes or any other STD at 6-7 weeks or any other time.
Try an over-the-counter steroid like hydrocortisone cream; and if the symptom persists after that, see your provider. But otherwise put it out of your mind, have sex with your girlfriend all you like, and put herpes out of your mind. Your anal itching has nothing whatsoever to do with the stripper event.
Good luck-- HHH, MD