I'm not sure what you are asking me to do or advise. Prolonged, even lifelong HIV infections occur from time to time, and some persons with genital warts continue to have recurrences for well beyond the average of several months, sometimes for many years. I have said so many times, and when not explicitly stated, I generally use qualifiers like "usually" or "most persons". So do all responsible sources of information about HPV and warts, such as CDC. However, even among people with prolonged, repeated recurrences, most eventually stop having outbreaks. I have no way of knowing whether you are at that point.
I'm not a relationship counselor. But I think it would be prudent, and respectful to your partners, to tell them the situation. If you use condoms, which of course is wise on general principles anyway, the risk of transmission will be markedly reduced. And if you are embarking on a new relationship that you think might become a committed one, of course you will need to discuss it anyway. Most people understand that genital warts are an inconvenience, not a serious health threat, and will not refuse to get involved in an otherwise promising relationship because of fear of warts.
Of course I understand this isn't always easy. It is a fact of life that sex typically comes before intimacy and often well before it is easy to judge the permanence of the relationship. I'll be other forum users will have some opinions for you.
Sorry I can't help further. Good luck-- HHH, MD
It would be interesting to know if it was a recurrence of the same strain?
Doc, has this ever been studied because infection by a new strain might explain much more apparent recurrences than people beleive. Has this been studied? I can't see any difficulty in doing this (a simple biopsy when new warts appear). This would fit into my recurrence theory outlined in a previous post. Is this just not seen as important enough for scientists to investigate?
HHH, MD