Relax. As by someone ahead of me already said (below), a person with genital herpes cannot transmit the infection by oral
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex . Conceivably you could have been exposed to oral herpes, if your partner also has that--but that risk was low if she didn't have an oral herpes outbreak at the time. The symptom you describe is not typical of herpes. And as I have said many times before, when a person suspects his or her own symptoms have a
psychologicalChild neglect and psychological abuse origin, probably they usually are right.
See a health care provider if you develop more typical symptoms of herpes. (If unfamiliar, read the article on herpes in the link STD Quick Facts and Articles on the STD forum home page.) Otherwise, don't worry about it.
Good luck-- HHH, MD