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Can massage oils really cause irritation for more than three weeks?

I am about to get married and I have a huge foot fetish. My fiancée has not interest in my foot fetish and finds its to be wired. Well I got her pregnant and we are having a lot of complications in our relationship.

Becuase of her interest to engage in my foot fetish, I have gone to massage parlors to get feet rubbed all over my body. In a few cases I've recieved handjobs.

This one particular night I was the last customer and the girl was tired. She was thankful that she would only be using her feet to massage me. She really liked it and began playing with her vagina. With that same hand she also gave me hand job. She also used a lot of oil, I remember being damped in oil.

There was no sex penetration or oral it was just feet rubbing and then the handjob. Two days later I get a burning sensation in urethra. I go and get tested and everything came back negative except for hsv-2. I then went to go see urologist and he said to disregard my results becuase they tend to be unreliable especially if your score is low. Mines was 1.60 for igg and Igm.

Nurses, friends and doctors keep saying it could just be bad reaction to oils. It's been about 30 days and I've been having mild burning on and off. Could it just be gentital anxiety. can bad reaction to oils and cream really last that long to heal?
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If she is not confortable then she is not and it should not be expected of her to be comfortable with you going somewhere else to get your kicks. We don't always get what we want, but we deal with it.

As this is something sexual for you, going away from her is cheating on her.
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Thanks. I think that after this 30 day tribulation , the more important question is if she can be flexible with my fetish or not be surprised if I go looking for it elsewhere, or be married and let me have my own foot massage service that way she knows I'm not cheating on her and I can enjoy what I truly like.
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Not a STD concern
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Sorry about my spelling and grammar. I'm typing from my iPhone at work and trying to be discreet too.
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