About three weeks ago I had
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with a
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Female condoms
Female sexual dysfunction friend of mine and the
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Female condoms fell off part way through (although we did not notice until the end). About 5 days later I experienced a persistent tingling sensation in the end of my
penisCancer - penis
Curvature of the penis
Penis care (uncircumcised)
Penis pain and inside my urethra. This developed into a burning sensation, which was aggravated when I urinated. This is still present. I am now terrified that I have contracted genital herpes.
I have not developed any sores, although I did have what appeared to be an enflamed hair
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Follicle stimulating hormone
Follicle stimulating hormone-ganirilex
Fsh
Hair follicle
Hair follicle anatomy
Hair follicle sebaceous gland for a few days. This was completely painless and settled down to look just like another
sebaceousBirthmarks - pigmented
Hair follicle sebaceous gland
Sebaceous cyst gland. I have had frequent yeast infections on my penis in the past, but they have never come on so suddenly and severely.
I have already been tested for all other STDs and had a swab taken from inside my urethra and tested for HSV (negative), but in the absence of any sores I cannot really rely on that diagnosis. HSV blood tests are not offered anywhere locally (I am in the UK). The girl has also been tested and treated for cervicitis. She has never shown any symptoms, although is prone to getting thrush.
My reasons for suspecting herpes is the tingling sensation, the suddenness of the symptoms and the fact that I started getting cold sores for the first time this year, having performed oral sex on this same girl about a year ago.
I am in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend is coming to visit soon. We do not use barrier protection and I am terrified that I will give her herpes. I do not, however, want to have to confess to cheating on her without good reason (i.e. if this is likely to just be candida again). Any and all advice will be very gratefully received.
If you are getting cold sores on your lips and that is presumably due to HSV-1, then there is no chance that your genital symptoms are also caused by HSV-1 as you cannot be reinfected in other parts of the body.
I am surprised by the response that candida does not cause burning in the urethra/head of penis. I was under the impression (from many websites on the subject and the GP that diagnosed me with a yeast infection a while back) that they were precisely the sort of symptoms that it caused.
Is it not also true that lots of people infected with HSV display much milder symptoms (like mine), hence leading to a large proportion of infected people being unaware? It seems that the absense of sores and excrutiating pain is not evidence enough to presume HSV is not there.
(I have been to a GUM clinic - that's where I got tested.)
Any further comments? I am not convinced that my girlfriend will be safe having unprotected sex with me.
HHH, MD
You will have to go private though.
Go to any of the Medi Centres that are situated around many parts of central London. They offer the HerpeSelect test done by Quest Diagnostics - a bleeding fee and the test cost a total of £79.
The Doctors Laboratory - You need a referral for this one. But you can get the blood drawn at their office on WImpole Street and they send it straight to their lab up the road. It's not HerpeSelect but it is reliable (around 95% sensitive) and type specific. Again, around £80.
If your doc won't give you a referral try these:
The Regents Park Clinic (again on Wimpole Street). They use the Doctors Laboratory. Around £120.
Also, online service DrThom offers the Doctors Laboratory test, but again will cost around £100.
Most places send their tests to one of these two labs.
I am not sure about out of London though.
Good Luck!
Am curious about cold sores though - some sources say you cant be reinfected in another site if you've already been infected with one type of HSV. If my cold sores are in fact HSV-2, then would that prevent me from getting genital symptoms, or pehaps reduce them? (Performing oral sex on this girl and starting to get cold sores both happened about a year ago.)
While candida seems to have been practically ruled out as a cause here, I have found that the clotrimazole anti-fungal cream that I have used for previous penile yeast infection does help reduce the pain on the end of my penis. (Is this likely to contain a generic "soothing" ingredient?) I have read on another site that a bad yeast infection of the penis can feel like "sunburn". That pretty much describes the sensation now.
As for the idea that this is "emotional" - that is really not the case. I am a natuarally optimistic bloke and did not even consider the possibility of STDs til my penis decided to burst into flames!
Anyone else out there had symptoms like mine?
The girl had cervicitis. This can be caused by a variety of things - if not HSV then could whatever it is have passed on to me to give me a general infection that would not be picked up and named by the usual batch of tests?
If her cervicitis was caused by HSV and she was enflamed at the time we had sex, does that qualify as her being "active" (i.e. more likely to transmit)?
I'll shut up now.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Was looking on the net for my symptoms and was delighted to find the following, which EXACTLY describes the progession of my symptoms:
"Non-specific urethritis (NSU) ...In men, first sign is tingling sensation at tip of penis, especially after urinating first thing in morning; this is followed by clear discharge from penis, scanty at first, then thicker and heavier."
Does that sound right to you? I only gradually started showing clear, viscous discharge over the past week - long after my visit to the GUM clinic (I went only two days after I first felt the tingling).
Is it likely that the lack of discharge and the early stage of the disease just meant that they missed the infection when they took a swab? Also, how long am I likely to be infectious once on a course of antibiotics?
Have accepted that it's highly unlikely for me to have herpes, and am going with NSU. Would be grateful for your opinion on this final thing - your advice so far has been invaluable. Thanks.
(Never thought I'd be so keen to have an STD, but NSU would explain everything AND be curable!)