From your description, it sounds like a good bet you are in the early stages of genital herpes due to HSV-1. Yes indeed, someone is particularly likely to transmit HSV at the time "active sores are forming". There are no self-treatments for herpes; if you need treatment, you need a prescription. See a health care provider immediately, preferably in the next 24 hours. If you don't have a
regularRegular insulin one (or even if you do but are not certain about his or her STD knowledge), visit your local health department STD clinic.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
HHH, MD
With burning pain on urination and redness at the tip, you definitely should be concered about acquiring genital herpes from your partner's oral herpes. That doesn't mean you have it, though. Don't assume anything is definite until you see a health care provider.
HHH, MD