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Condom slipped off with CSW
Hi forum,
I had protected oral and vaginal sex with a CSW. After one position, I withdrew and found that the condom was completely off. It was still inside her, but I didn't see closely if it was deep inside her or still hanging on the outside. So I'm not sure if my penis had bare contact with the inside of her vagina. But she seemed to be able to remove the condom easily. She didn't seem worried. I asked if she had anything in regards to HIV/STDs, and she said she didn't. She also asked me, so I guess that was also a sign that she didn't have anything.
1. Considering that the condom slipped off, am I at risk for HIV or any other STDs? Should I get tested?
2. I am starting to date someone now, and am wondering if it is ok to have sexual activity with her? Or should I wait 4-6 weeks to get tested?
Thanks for any insights!
I had protected oral and vaginal sex with a CSW. After one position, I withdrew and found that the condom was completely off. It was still inside her, but I didn't see closely if it was deep inside her or still hanging on the outside. So I'm not sure if my penis had bare contact with the inside of her vagina. But she seemed to be able to remove the condom easily. She didn't seem worried. I asked if she had anything in regards to HIV/STDs, and she said she didn't. She also asked me, so I guess that was also a sign that she didn't have anything.
1. Considering that the condom slipped off, am I at risk for HIV or any other STDs? Should I get tested?
2. I am starting to date someone now, and am wondering if it is ok to have sexual activity with her? Or should I wait 4-6 weeks to get tested?
Thanks for any insights!
Ok sorry I am very paranoid now. So just to be clear, you still think this was very low risk? Sorry to bother you!
Ok thank you for the insight.
You mentioned "1 time encounter". This was the fourth time I've seen this woman in about a 3-month period. She is very professional. Each time, we've used condoms for oral and vaginal sex, but this was the only time it slipped off. And after each time, I've never experienced symptoms for any STDs within these past 3 months.
Does this change your opinion?
You mentioned "1 time encounter". This was the fourth time I've seen this woman in about a 3-month period. She is very professional. Each time, we've used condoms for oral and vaginal sex, but this was the only time it slipped off. And after each time, I've never experienced symptoms for any STDs within these past 3 months.
Does this change your opinion?
Any 1 time encounter even unprotected is low risk. So if it was short then very low risk.
Hi, sorry I was just rethinking this. In the possibility that the condom was half-off inside her, so the base was exposed for 10-15 sec, i suppose it is also possible that the head then was exposed for a split second as I withdrew.
Would this still be low-risk for herpes, syphillis, gonorrhea and other STDs? Or very low risk? Or moderate risk?
Sorry, my anxiety has gotten the best of me and I am super paranoid now.
Would this still be low-risk for herpes, syphillis, gonorrhea and other STDs? Or very low risk? Or moderate risk?
Sorry, my anxiety has gotten the best of me and I am super paranoid now.
Thank you for the quick reply!
In regards to 1., I believe the condom was mostly there, and not deep inside her. If it was slightly inside her, so maybe the base of my penis was exposed (not the head), would you consider that high risk or low risk chance of getting HIV or any other STDs?
In regards to 1., I believe the condom was mostly there, and not deep inside her. If it was slightly inside her, so maybe the base of my penis was exposed (not the head), would you consider that high risk or low risk chance of getting HIV or any other STDs?
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