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DO u think this could be HIV???

I am a 20 yr old bi male, and i have given eight guys oral sex. Out of those eight men only two of the men were unprotected oral sex and i didnt take any ejaculation in my mouth. I did anal sex with one of these men and it was protected no condom break or anything like that. But it seems like I just have not been feeling like normal. I had some pain behind my ears thought it was my wisdom tooth had them removed that went away. I had fatigue for about a week or two, scratchy throat, no fever, went to the doctor and he said i had a upper respiratory infection gave me some pills that went away. I then had muscle pains in my calfs and my wrists, that lasted for about a week then it went away.....I did test 30 days after my two unprotected oral sex exposures it came back negative. All these men say there negative, but u know how that goes.. I dont consider any of the other acts risky, because I used a condom EVERY time. And the one time I had anal sex it was protected. Now my underarms are hurting, but i went to the doctor and they are not swolllen, no lymph nodes are swollen but they are very uncomfortable, I thought I had a swollen gland in my neck but dr. said it wasnt, so what could be causin this underarm pain, any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
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the doctor diagnosed my pain as bacteria from sweating as to what caused the pain....again any input appreciated...
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Could it be that you've gotten yourself so worked up with worry that your mind is conjuring up symptoms?  Try to find out when you should get tested again for HIV.  I don't know for sure but I think there's a waiting time and then you can have a second test to be sure.  In the mean time just keep doing what your doing.  Go to the doctor if your systems are serious enough and try to relax.  Hopefully you've learned from this that unprotected sex just isn't worth it.

Good luck.
Rod.
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well i by most standards did have protected sex i did protect myself when i had oral sex and with the exception of two people i protected myself with oral sex, DR. HHH, says that my risk was so low i dont need further testing i have had my blood count done and it was normal, im just obsessing with it i guess......oral sex it very low risk, but im sort of an hypochondriac.
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let me type again i had some errors:  i protected my self when i had anal intercourse and i protected myself with oral sex with the exception of two times, and those two times i did not let them *** in my mouth, i guess i just get paranoid, i mean all these people say they will test to prove they dont have anything so i guess i should be relieved and by most standards i did have protected sex, im just kind of a chronic worrier, so i dont know, thanks for your input though.
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