Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

Deep Kissing with my touge beening sore

I meet a girl 4 days and later we where deep French Kissing for about 3 to 5 min before I came to my senses and got out of there.   I am married (she is pregnant) so the stress is killing me and do not want to affect the one on the way or my wife.   I think this girl got around some but what scared me is that she told me that her ex husband was doing drugs and I believe she has a lot of partners.  I did see a mark on her neck that night.  Not sure if it was a HIV lesion or just a hicky form someone else.  

I am concerned because my tip of my tough (taste buds) was very raw at the front and almost looked like it they could be bleeding when pushed together. .   Noticed it because after we kiss my tongue felt raw.   Sometimes my gum will bleed too when I use a water pick which I used about 4 hours before this happen but did not see evidence of that but was not checking at the time.   Nevertheless,  My concern is at day two I had a problem peeing and need to go constantly.   I was going about every ½ hour and and sometime more it would dribble out.    My balls and groin where itchy too.   Day 3 Peeing was not as much but still dribbled out and had some discomfort at the tip because I had to go so much.   I also feel like a sore throat but not a typical sore throat.  So looked at throat in mirror you can see it has a white and yellow stuff back there.  Tastes buds ( I believe in back) are supper large and look like a wart.   I also had a few small blisters looking things on the back top of my mouth where the large tastes or wart looking this is.  My tongue feels and looks swollen too.  If I take a flash light I can check the back of my throat and is looks *****.  Throat feels raw.  I also am starting to get bad breath.    I did have strep throat in September last year but this does not feel as bad as that did.  However it is some kind of sore throat.    Do you think I picked up something?    What would the throat thing be.  Is not strep throat really red?
I really would like to get tested more for my sanity and not to transfer anything to my wife and new one on the way.   I regreat what I did and have to deal with the consequences of my unfaithfulness..   When would be the best times for testing before I kiss or ever have sex again with my partner?   Sould I get tested for HIV and Hep C?
8 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Well the sores where small on the tip of my tounge I just had been growing a beard and had been rubbing my touge on it a lot.   It was very sore and red to the point where it looked like small pricks over the top front of my tounge.    

I reallize you cant get it from Kissing and lot of it might be in my head.   Just because of the mouth infection the doctor said I had it just made me worried because I did catch that.    

Thanks for aswering all my question I really have appreciated it.  

Thank you
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
What sore are you talking about?

Again you do not get STD's from kissing.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Went to the Dr.  He said I had a baterial infection in the mouth and not to worry about it since I did not have oral sex.   I still have sore thoat 6 and stinging at the end of my penis when I am sitting only.  Just concerned still since I had sores on the end of my Tounge.   To catch a STD would you need sore to sore or only saliva to sores?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
No STD is passed from kissing. Yes herpes is but for the most part oral herpes is not considered a STD because it is from kissing and about 60% of the population has it.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I am concerned about std in general just new to this so figuring out where to go for that
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Concerned about herpes post in the herpes community.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I would have said the same thing a week ago but seeing the inside of my mouth I would would disagree (enless the Doc says otherwise).  Deep kissing like we where and it was very open mouth.   I guess some concern is the blister or wart looking things that are on the back of my tongue.   Some o them must be 1/8" big.  I also have a few on the side of the tongue but in the back.  I also put my fingures down and can feel them going into my throat.  Also my touge has real small red spots... Dont know if thats due to warm drinks be?  How long does herps show up?  Can it show blisters in 4 days?  
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Kissing is not a risk for anything.
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the STDs / STIs Community

Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.