That is too soon to show signs of herpes. It is pointing more to some kind of an infection then an STD. But you do need to be seen by a Dr. Do not hesitate anymore.
Also i found very small white spots on the outside of my vagina. with a couple of red ones. I have never seen these before and now i am veryyy nervous.
It could be a UTI or maybe a yeast infection or possibly a STD. Chances are that it is one of the 1st 2.
Okay we will, but just to give myself some self of mind...
what does it sound like it could be
It could be a UTI, but you and your bf need to test. Rumors aside, he's had other partners, and testing is always a good idea.
If you've had other partners, its also possible that you have something, so if both of you test, you can just put the std stuff to rest.
Aj