Fingering risks concerning pregnancy?

[sc_guy]

I know that this type of question has been asked before, but I wanted to give everyone my scenario.  On the night of Dec. 27 and morning of Dec 28 my girlfriend and I spent the night together.  She got completely nude and I took my jeans off and put on a pair of cotton shorts over my underwear.  We kissed a lot, I sucked her breasts, and then I fingered her some that night and again that morning.

Well she thinks that her period started on December 14, which was a Sunday.  Today is Wednesday January 14, and her period has still not arrived.  She said that she had breast soreness last week, and this past Sunday could "smell" that her period was on the way.  December had 31 days, so this would be day 31 or 32.

I never orgasmed in my pants, but I am sure I had an erection at some point and probably had pre-c*m down there.  I did not touch my penis while in the bedroom, but I did go use the bathroom a time or two but I Am sure I rinsed my hands off afterward.  I might have gottn on top of her some and dry humped so maybe some pre-c*m was on my outer shorts.  I also at one point lifted the bands of both my shorts and undies just to readjust that way, but I am sure my hand did not touch the tip of myself.

She took a home preganancy test on Friday night, Jan. 9th and Saturday morning, January 10th.  I realize that even with the one on Saturday morning it was only 13 days since the "sexual" act happened.  Well she took one last night and again this morning, January 14, which is 17 days after the act happened.  All have been negative.

My questions are freaking her out about her late period.  She is 33 years old and has two kids, so she isn't exactly a teenager either.  She did have intercourse with her last bf back in Nov., but she said she had a period since then.  She is not on any type of birth control right now.

Here are my questions:  is there any chance that I could have gotten her pregnant?  Am I being paranoid?

Thank you for reading my lengthy post.  Please someone respond asap!
  

[auntiejessi]

No, there really isn't.

Aj

[sc_guy]

I will try to.  Not to beat a dead horse, but is there really any reason for me to give this whole episode a second thought?

[auntiejessi]

Oh I didn't mean you were a pest.  Not at all.  And you are probably right - there isn't a great forum for this question - maybe sexual health, but there isn't a really good fit for it.

Just hang in there, ok?

Aj

[sc_guy]

I am sorry for being a pest to you all.  I did not see any other forum under pregnancy that this would fit, and I knew that you and some of the others like Vance were regulars on this forum, and I trust you guys.  Sorry again and maybe everything will be okay.  

[auntiejessi]

OK we answered your question, hon.  This really doesn't even belong in this forum, but I let it go since people had answered it by the time I got here, and because you've posted here before.

You seem to have some anxiety and/or OCD around sex, stds, pregnancy, etc.  I don't know if you just don't have good info, or if this is the way your anxiety and/or OCD manifests.  Its as if you fear some terrible consequence will befall you for being sexual.  Its not my place, or my desire, to delve into your personal reasons for any of this, or if I'm right or wrong.  I say it so you can think about it, and talk to your doctor or a therapist about it.

As for now, this thread has to end.  There is no chance of this.

Aj

[sc_guy]

Sorry but the one response was like there was a chance, at like one-percent, that I should be worried.  That sort of made me anxious.

[Vance2335]

Stop thinking about this. And don't say what if this or what if that because it never helps your mind.
You did nothing that would cause any problem what so ever.
Stop asking this question. Not trying to be mean but just trying to get this out of your head.

[sc_guy]

Thank you for the information.  What if, even though I know this did not happen, some pre-c*m got on my fingers, dried, then I put those fingers into her.  Would that be a cause for concern?  In addition, what is my fingers rubbed up against my moistness on my underwear when I readjusted or went to the bathroom?  I had an erection before we went to the bedroom, and I am sure that is when the pre-c*m appeared, but by the time I went upstairs and changed out of my jeans into my shorts, it was flacid again.  Maybe my hand or fingers touched the moistness on my underwear when I was changing and by the time I got into bed with her and started fooling around somehow there was some on my hand?  I do not remember seeing any wetness like that on my fingers or hands, and it isn't like I touched the head of my penis and purposely got pre-c*m on it.  If anything I might have brushed by the head when I went to the bathroom or something?  Thank you so much.  

[auntiejessi]

There is NO RISK here.  None.  You were wearing shorts, and there is no way it could have been transferred via a cell phone.

Sometimes women just have a late period here and there, and there's no rhyme or reason to it.  I'm sure its not helping that you all are stressing, either.  Just let it go for a few days, and go from there.

Aj

[sc_guy]

I know what you mean about the worrying.  Yeah I had on underwear and a pair of cotton shorts.  I was just worried that somehow some pre-c*m got on my hands before I fingered her.  I swear I am seriously consdiering not having any type of gential contact until I am married.  I have slight OCD and all it seems to do when I do have it is cause me to worry.

Thanks for the repsonse and please anyone else feel free to chime in!

[Questions24]

I know, I worry about this sometimes when Me and my GF get in the mood but to be honest mate the chances of getting a girl pregenant this way are low...

Lets just look at your situation from the start and see how possible this really is... :)
Ok ready lol?

Well 1st off you said that she was naked and you where wearing boxers, this already puts the odds in you favour as sperm arnt really designed for swimming through boxers
You then State that you didnt ejaculate but may fear there was pre-*** (Im guessing that there definetly was as ive never know me not to have pre-*** when me and my gf are in that mood) Now pre-*** is to get rid of any urine etc that may be in the tube before the ejaculation, Simply it just makes the journey for the sperm easier and less harmful :) The acid etc in pre-*** cant kill sperm but it isnt the best conditions for them...
Pre-*** has been known to cause pregenancy but again the odds arnt that high :)
You then where worried some may be on your fingers etc? Well to be honest it is possible in theory but hasnt been proven (To my knwoladge)
You then said she has had two negative pregnancy tests... These both being wrong after so many days pretty much seal the deal lol...

So yes there is a chance that Pre-*** can get girls pregenant but with all the points etc that point towards her not being pregenant id say puts you in the safe :)

However, her not having her period is worrying... But then again my gf is sometimes late (I actully think sometimes the worry of being pregnant holds up the period.. :P )
So beacuse this you arnt in the clear yet... Id say you definetly 99% tho :)

[sc_guy]

I forgot to add that she said that she gets cysts on her ovaries sometimes.  

[sc_guy]

I did have my cell phone and used it some during the night and morning, and I carried it to the bathroom when I used it.  Could sperm have gotten on it from me using the bathroom and transferred back to my hands before I fingered her?  Maybe my hands touched a wet spot on my undies when I went to the bathroom and I picked my phone up and got it on it before I washed my hands?