First, I'm not a neurologist--so I cannot comment on any of the alternative diagnoses you mention or the treatments that have been tried. And I also cannot comment on the specific symptoms. My comments below accept the notion that you have a neuropathy, but only because of what you say (or apparently have been told); this definitely is not my area of expertise.
Second, my comments below assume the diagnosis of genital herpes is correct. If in fact you had a genital outbreak of herpes zoster (shingles), then I would assume your neurological problem is post-herpetic neuralgia (PHN). As you seem to know, PHN is a well recognized and quite common complication of that infection. However, if a culture test showed HSV, the diagnosis almost certainly is correct.
HSV indeed is neurotropic. However, the documented neuropathic effects of HSV-1 and HSV-2 are pretty much limited to recurrent symptoms that occur in association with (typically just before) herpes outbreaks, with localized numbness, tingling, etc. Some of those outbreaks can be asymptomatic, i.e. only the neuropathic symptoms occur. But either way, they usually are localized to the area where the outbreak itself will occur, although once in a while they can be more widespread--e.g., pain and tingling down the leg, even though the outbreak occurs on the labia, for example.
Whether HSV sometimes can cause more persistent neuropathic symptoms, such as what you are experiencing--that is, a syndrome comprable to PHN following shingles--really isn't known; the issue has never been studied in any systematic way. My guess is that it can and does, but is rare. For most people with your sort of problem, herpes probably is not the cause. However, most cases that come to my attention do not have the apparent direct sequence of events that you describe: the onset of symptoms while being treated for your apparently first genital herpes infection certainly suggests a possible link.
As for what to do about it, that's also outside my expertise. It would seem reasonable to try high dose suppressive therapy with valacyclovir or one of the other antiherpetic drugs. But don't get your hopes up; that doesn't help PHN due to shingles, even though that virus also is susceptible to the same drugs. You're going to have to rely on your neurologist or, if not certain s/he is on top of the problem, ask for referral for another opinion.
Best wishes--- HHH, MD
With everything I read on PHN, pain was the main symptom, why is it that I have no pain? Also My nuerologist said he didnt think I had it, but like you said I should get a second opinion.
You stated that maybe I should try high doses of suppressive therapy, no Dr. thus far has mentioned that to me, I will check into that.
Thank you again for you comments, much appreciated!!!!
You don't need an HSV-2 blood test unless there is some reason to doubt the result of your HSV culture.
As I suggested, if specific answers are available about what's going on or how to treat it, they are much more likely to come from a neurologist, definitely not from me.
HHH, MD
Thank you again, and thanks for being part of MedHelp, I love this website.
http://www.hmc.psu.edu/healthinfo/g/guillainbarre.htm
In order to know that herpes might be the cause, a research study could test persons with and without PHN-like symptoms for HSV-2. If the proportion with HSV-2 was higher in the PHN group than those without such symptoms, it would support the association. (That kind of research would not prove causality, but it would be a start.) Such research has not been done, and for a variety of reasons is unlikely in the foreseeable future.
HSV-2 indeed may cause PHN, as I told tammi66 above. But we just don't know, and even very reliable stories like yours do not prove the case. Don't get me wrong: I am not accusuing you of not having symptoms or of somehow being unreliable. If you were my patient, I would do everything I could reasonably do to control your symptoms and otherwise help you with the problem.
No ongoing discussion, please. I don't normally comment even this much on older threads.
Best wishes to you.