Hi doctor...thank you for your time. I hope you can help me.
I had a one time, brief (30 sec-1 min)act of fellatio performed on me by a
womanWomen's way who is not my long term girlfriend. No
ejaculationBlood in the semen
Delayed ejaculation
Premature ejaculation
Retrograde ejaculation.
Afterwards, I became freaked that I could have gotten chalamydia or gonorrhea. I went to a doc who did not test me, but did prescribe 2
gramsGram stain of skin lesion
Gram stain of tissue biopsy of
zithromaxZithromax
Zithromax iv
Zithromax tri-pak
Zithromax z-pak for both me and my long term GF. (8 pills each) We both took the treatment (she did not know it was for STDs - that's another story). We waited the 7-10 days suggested before resuming
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex . (Probably 8 days before we resumed).
After the
zithromaxZithromax
Zithromax iv
Zithromax tri-pak
Zithromax z-pak, I have now had 2 swab tests that both came back negative for chlamydia and gonnorhea. (one test was 11 days after treatment, one was 40 days after). The two tests were done almost a month apart, and in between the 2 tests, I had unprotected sex with my long time GF once or twice. I would love to believe that we're both in the clear due to my 2 negative tests - but she has not been tested, and I can't tell her about this incident so she can be tested or my relationship will crumble. So my questions:
1. Is there any chance that the zithromax cured me, but not her...and that she could still be positive while my tests have shown me as negative? (I worry that she could be positive and not know it, and she will become sterile)
2. She is going for a gynocological exam (routine) soon. Would a normal exam and a pap test pick up any of these STDs, or any signs of trouble? She had an STD test before my incident (she was neg.) so she won't be getting another one, and I can't convince her to get another without arousing major suspicion.
4. Based on my 2 neg. tests after the 2g Zithromax treatment that we both received....is it safe to assume we are both in the clear? I would like to gain some closure on this that doesn't involve our relationship being ended.
I understand that this event has been handled incorrectly, and I am having a lot of trouble with the thought that my GF could be infected and it is silently affecting her health. Any reassurance you provide would be extremely helpful.
Thanks.
Bottom line is you never had anything, so any treatment is not relevent. If this ever happens again, insist on a test before any meds are taken. It is not responsible medicine to treat without a test, IMHO.
You should forget it and move on.
Additionally, my GF hasn't had any real symtoms...an occasional stomach pain here and there, one bout of nasaua (that could have been explained by drinking too much) but other than that...nothing. Certainly nothing that would make her say, "hey...this feels wrong" or anything like that. She's the one I'm really worried about.
1. is it usual procedure for possible chamydia/gonnorrhea exposure to have a "test of cure" after being prescribed and treated with 2gs of Zithromax? Or would the usual advice just be take the pills, don't have sex for a week, and then you'll be ok? My GF takes birth control pills (Mircette)...would that have effected the Zithromax at all, causing it to fail?
2. Do you see any reason for me to push my girlfriend to be tested? I don't want to arouse more suspicion, but have to be sure she's ok...I love her.
Thank you.
There is an editing glitch in my closing comment in my origina response. The last paragraph is supposed to read "Now about this business about arranging treatment for your partner without telling her about an STD risk.... What planet is she from? What planet are you from? If she has an IQ over 50, you can be sure she at least suspects that you were concerned about STD. That was a really dumb idea."
HHH, MD