Your situation and circumstance is unusual in many ways. While gonorrhea can occur following receipt of oral sex, it is not common. Similarly, it is uncommon for the symptoms of gonorrhea to occur after so long. Finally, if you had gonorrhea, it would be uncommon for your tests to be negative. I will preliminarily answer your questions below but I also have several questions for you. these include:
1. Were you treated when you had symptoms in February? With what? Did you improve with treatment?
2. Was your wife treated after you had the onset of symptoms
3. Were you tested before you were treated or after you had started treatment?
4. Have you taken any other antibiotics between your October exposure and now?
5. When you are sexually active with your wife, does she perform oral sex on you?
6. Do you have any other health problems?
As for your current questions:
1. No, it is uncommon.
2. For all practical purposes, chlamydia is not transmitted by oral sex. Gonorrhea and NGU can follow oral sex however. We see a fair amount of it.
3. Possibly, I will answer further when I hear answers to the questions above.
4. No, not following treatment
5. Yes. More on this after your answers
6. Yes, it is best to err on the safe side.
Loooking forward to your answers to my questions. EWH
1. No treatment in February. I did not seek as STD tests were all negative. After those results my symptoms receded and I chalked it up to pyscho-somatic manifestations of guilt.
2. Wife was not treated.
3. Again, no treatment. I did provide the urine sample in the morning however. I had urinated upon waking at home and provided the sample approximately one hour later. not sure if that has any bearing.
4. No antibiotics
5. Wife performs oral sex rarely and not that I can recall during sex since October which has been infrequent (less than 6 times).
6. Generally healthy. I have had a urine leaking issue for the past year at the end of uniration. Have to shake vigorously and wait several seconds to make sure I have fully drained. PCP checked prostrate and found negligible enlargement.
You tests have proved that you do not have gonorrhea. It is not normal however to have penile discharge. I presume your doctor say increased numbers of white blood cells present either in a swab test or in your urine. If so, then you have NGU. NGU should be treated. While some NGU is caused by chlamydia, some is not. No matter what is casuing it, to be safe, both you and your wife should bbe treated., either with azithromycin as a singe 1.0 gram dose or with doxycycline 100 mg twice daily for a week. EWH
I have read that UTIs, prostate infections, catheterization, and foreskin issues can result in NGUs. Only the first two could be applicable to me. Saying a UTI can cause an NGU seems to me like one is saying the same thing twice, an infection is an infection. I know male UTIs are uncommon, but they do happen. Might a prostate infection also explain my leaking issue over time such that these symptoms are actually not related to my October indiscretion?
Thanks again.
Thanks again.
As for nonchlamydial NGU, there is no clear lik=nk between this problem and adverse health outcomes in women, mostly becasue it has not been studied very well. Do you want to take the chance? If at all possible, just to resolve all of this once and for all, I would hope that you could both be treated. Remember, with non-chlamydial NGU, since we don't know what casues it, we don't know that it is an STD. Rather than mess around, you'd both be served well to get treated. EWH
Thanks again.
I also need to register my concern as well that tryig to sneak medication into your wife is not a good or ethical idea. EWH
What is the probability of my February test being a false negative?
This forum has been unbelievably helpful. Thank you!