trust me that wont move him, im lucky if i get sex once a week now, he never wants it, he definatly wont go if i say that lol
He wont go at all, iv been on at him all day, so i bought him somethrush cream to see if that would work. if it is anything else im sure it will show up when i go to get tested.
tell him no sex until he goes ...that'll get him moving :)
grace
Well, please protect yourself from getting anything further and use condoms when having sex with him from now on. If he refuses, then he should get to stepping until he shows you proof he got tested and treated.
hi all
Thanks for the comments, but he will not go to the doctors which makes me think he is guilty of something! he refuses so i am going to go to see if i have anything, that is the only way i can find out really!!
not everything is herpes. folks need to be seen and get a proper work up and testing by their provider, not be scared into thinking it's herpes needlessly.
grace
I stongly agree! Absolutely no sex of any kind until he has been fully checked out by a doctor and has been cleared up. Even after that, there will be changes. He will have to completely take all of his medicatioin and still wait for at least another two weeks from the time that he is symptom free. Then he will go on a suppressive therapy, which is crucial for you to make sure that this isn't passed on to you. Condoms are a must even when he does not have any lesions because he can be shedding the virus at any time, even without symptoms. Trust me, it's not just a rash, it's the rash from hell and it really hurts. You do know want this!
Good luck,
LissaValenz
he needs to be seen. no way to figure out what is going on with him until he has been. you shouldn't be having any more sex until he's had a proper work up done.
grace