Sorry, I really cannot help. You have been repeatedly examined and treated and the diagnosis isn't clear, at least not to the most important person involved (you). I just can't say what you had. Anyway, if I understand correctly, all this occurred 5 years ago and the problem is long gone. If so, what does it matter? Whatever you had isn't there anymore.
It's only when I get to the last lines that I understand your concern, that you might have had HPV that you still have and that risks your partner's or a future baby's health. It does not, even if you had warts. The likelihood of the outcomes you describe probably are zero or close to it. This isn't worth the worry you are feeling. Please do some reading to educate yourself about HPV and warts. Start with this thread from just yesterday:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/758844. Disregard the business about oral cancer. Just read the last paragraph of my reply, about HPV being a normal consequence of human sexuality with rare serious outcomes. Also note that different HPV types cause warts than those that predispose to cervical cancer.
So nothing at all need be done. All is well. If your partner (future wife?) gets pregnant, if she doesn't have overt, visible warts when she goes into labor, there is no signficant risk of RRP for the baby.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD