Thank you for your response. It was very helpful. Although I'm trying not to get my hopes up that it was a false positive, I'm obviously seeking a clear confirmation one way or the other. Given that, I'm going to try to get the WB immediately. Thanks again for your response!
Your HSV-2 result is technically positive but very weakly so. There is a good chance it is falsely positive. Rather than going directly to Western blot, I suggest either of two options. First, retest with the standard test used by LabCorps, i.e. the Focus HerpeSelect. If a second test is negative for HSV-2, that result undoubtedly is the accurate one. If the result is positive at a higher ELISA ratio, it is probable you have HSV-2. If it remains positive but weak, at that point go on to Western blot.
Alternatively, be retested with a different type-specific HSV-2 test. The easiest is the BiokitUSA test, which your doctor can do in the office while you wait. If it agrees with the current test, it confirms HSV-2. If negative, it probably means you aren't infected; and that could also be confirmed by WB.
You could go directly to WB, however. The advantage is that it might be quicker to a final decision, without risking yet another round of testing. The disadvantage is that it's a fairly expensive option.
To the specific questions:
1) My bet is that you don't have HSV-2, but I can't put a numerical estimate on it.
2) Just ask your provider to contact his usual laboratory. All routine/local labs know how to arrange shipment of specimens to reference labs. Just ask your doc to tell the lab that an HSV Western blot is needed by the UW clinical labs; they'll take care of the rest.
3) You were told wrong. It is not possible from your test results to know when you were infected. Your counselor probably believes the negative IgM result suggests a prolonged infection. But IgM testing is unreliable and doesn't in fact give any clue about how long you have been infected.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD