HSV1 Genital Transmission

I am a female, 35 and was diagnosed with Genital HSV1 in March of 2007 after acquiring it from oral sex that was performed on me.  Diagnosis was confirmed by a swab my doctor took and tested.  Was negative for HSV2.  I had my initial outbreak which was pretty severe but have never had an outbreak since that time.  I am seeing someone new and we have engaged in very moderate sexual contact at this point.  However, I am interested in going to the next level with him.  My question is do you feel that after 2 years without no additional outbreaks I should inform him of my prior infection?  I know you say the likelyhood of transmission genial to genital is rare but can you elaborate?  Should I use a condom to be safe?  Just looking for some guidance and suggestion. I don't want him to freak out and run for the door if I tell him this at this point in the relationship.
Thank you so much.

[Vance2335]

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