I'll assume your anal HSV-1 infection is accurate. But be certain the testing was done properly. Initial anal herpes in a woman due to HSV-1 would be uncommon. (You don't actually say your gender, but the context makes me think so. If you're a gay man, HSV-1 might be a better bet.)
1) Presumably you're still taking treatment for the initial episode. That dose is fine.
2) Once any open sores are healed, you are not likely to be infectious.
3) Most likely your boyfriend is immune, since more than half the population has HSV-1. He can have a blood test to know. If he is already positive, you don't need to worry about it. And as I said, asymptomatic shedding of HSV-1 is uncommon. So if there is any risk at all (between your outreaks), it is very low.
4) Most people with genital or anal HSV-1 do not need suppressive therapy with acyclovir or anything else. Most such infections do not recur frequently and asymptomatic shedding and transmission are uncommon. But it certainly is an option, and probably would be covered by insurance.
5) See above. People already infected with a particular HSV-1 type are very resistant (often completely immune) from catching it again, on any part of their body.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
i had my testing done at a very reputable GID unit at one of the major hospitals here in Boston, so i probably think they're accurate.
the boyfriend is working to get tested. 2 or 3 places we've called do not do the blood test for herpes anitbodies. we're calling a few more places today.
thanks again for your response.
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good luck!