You've got it right. You are immune to HSV-1 from any source and for any part of your body. I don't remember Siri's question or my response. However, once in a while a person gets HSV-2 orally, but HSV-2 almost never causes
recurrentRecurrent cystitis oral disease; so if you catch oral herpes from oral contact with your partner (cunnlingus), you might get HSV-2 of your mouth, but you won't have
recurrentRecurrent cystitis outbreaks in the future. You are also right that if someone is both HSV-1 and HSV-2 positive, like your girlfriend, the odds are virtually 100% that she does not have oral HSV-2 infection.
Thus, any risk you have of getting genital herpes from your partner is only through
vaginalAnterior vaginal wall repair
Causes of vaginal itching
Culture - endocervix
Hydrocele
Hysterectomy
Transvaginal ultrasound
Vaginal bleeding between periods
Vaginal bleeding during pregnancy
Vaginal bleeding in pregnancy
Vaginal cysts
Vaginal discharge or anal
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex , not oral sex. If avoiding that is important to you, you should avoid vaginal and anal sex when your partner is having an outbreak; use condoms consistently; and consider whether your partner should take suppressive therapy with an anti-herpes drug.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
much appreciated.